Sloppy

How often in our lives have we been told sloppy, wetness, mushy gushyness, and just yuckyness in general is well, YUCKY?! We have been taught that since we were little!

That is how I have been feeling about sex lately. I feel the reward, "the big O" isn't all that great compared to the mess that is left behind! Yes, I like sex, yes I have had plenty of good sex in my marriage, but lets face it, some times after doing the laundry, making the dinner, taking care of the husband and the kid, and hmmmm....what am I leaving out? Oh yeah WORK!!!!!! I just don't feel sexy, or sexual or wanting to deal with yet, another MESS!!!

I feel bad for my husband who asked me recently, "Is the bakery open tonight?" "Cause I would really like some cherry pie." To which I replied, "I think the bakery went out of business." "We are in a recession you know!"

I know he needs more affection besides spooning every night, but I am just plain not into it! Even when I am and it's great, I am still left with the feeling that at the end of the orgasmic encounter, I am still just a messy, sloppy, depository, and I need a clean up in aisle V!!!!!!!!! Isn't there a way to make sex more hygienic? Less SLOPPY?